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On today’s episodes of pillow talk episode, i’ll be talking about something a little bit personal and very important. I titled this “STOP ASKING PEOPLE THE QUESTION WHEN”
What do i mean by this?
I have actually watched people hurt others feelings by asking some “when” certain questions. I remembered when i finished my secondary school education (high school) and i decided to take a break, the said question arises “when are you applying for the entrance exam to the university, then we have the when are you getting a job, when are you starting a serious relationship, now it is when are you getting married because you are not getting any younger”
I honestly don’t know what people are trying to achieve by asking these questions. It’s not as if everyone ask to make one feel bad but, majority just want to hurt people and mock them with these questions. Let people enjoy their lives and let them figure out their next step on their own. you are not their God neither do you have the right to question or judge people.
Some of the ones that really gets to me is asking a single lady or guy when he/she is getting married or seeing a newly wedded couple or those trusting God for a child when they are planning to have a child or seeing someone struggling with life why he/she doesn’t have a job or when they are getting one. These questions are just not right when it is becoming a constant watchword or anthem.
I don’t think it will be fair if i see an elderly nosy aunt/uncle that constantly bashes me with the “when are you getting married tag” and ask him/her when he/she is going to die? This same way this stings and hurts, is the way all these “when questions” hurts when it is becoming too much.
I have seen so many people getting married to the right person for the wrong reasons or getting married without their heart in it. And also getting the wrong job s or trying other means to seek for what is not lost just shut people up.
Till they ask someone that is struggling the when tag and then realized it is not funny to ask such.
Mine is when i’m getting married and here is my response
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watch out for the next Pillow talk episodes and if you missed the last two talks click down below.
Pillow Talk #1 All men are the same
Pillow Talk #2 Is love enough to save marriage