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Pillow talk #2 |IS LOVE ENOUGH TO SAVE MARRIAGE?

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Hello my Apples!

On today’s session of pillow talk, i did a little bit something different. We are going to be talking about love and marriage. With high rates of marriage and divorce in this generation, i think it’s safe to say this topic is needed. I’m not married of course (hahahaha) but, learning is needed in every area of our lives.

I asked myself these few question;

why is rate of divorce getting higher? Why do people get married every week? Is love not saving two people that claimed to be in love again? Is marriage Difficult than the way we were made to believe? Are these people marrying for the wrong reasons?

So I did a quick survey on the guys to hear their honest opinion about love, marriage and feelings.

Q&A

WHAT ISRAEL THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? “lol” NO

Have you ever being in love? YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? NO “i haven’t loved two at a time but have loved one and miss another”

What’s your definition of love? GOD IS LOVE

Your opinion about marriage? I am not a believer of marriage

Can love save a marriage? It takes more than love to be with someone, most times love is never enough.

It takes more than love to be with someone, most times love is never enough “says Israel”

WHAT BLISS THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? YES I DO

Have you ever being in love? “Smile” YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? NO

What’s your definition of love? DEEP AFFECTION FOR SOMEONE/SOMETHING

Do you believe in marriage? YES I do

Can love save marriage? YES “more than enough to save life and also marriage”

YES love is more than enough to save life and also marriage “says Bliss”

WHAT TAYO THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? YES I do

Have you ever being in love? I am in love now

Have you ever loved two women at a time? NO “it’s not possible. Is either you love them both for different reasons or it’s lust. If you can’t see all you want in one woman then that’s not love”

What’s your definition of love? Does it have one but I think it’s just like earth at the beginning of time; earth was without form and void but was in existence. Without love one feels empty.

Do you believe in marriage? YES “but not the physical interpretation”

Can love save marriage? YES “it keeps it alive, no love no marriage, and no love no home.

YES it keeps it alive, no love no marriage, and no love no home “says Tayo”

WHAT AUSTIN THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? YES I do

Have you ever being in love? YES “but it never lasted”

Have you ever loved two women at a time? YES “but had to let go of them”

What’s your definition of love? Love to me is a bound that connects two people regardless of who they are or where they are from. It’s selfless, endures, understands and also has the capacity to sacrifice whatever it can

What’s your opinion about marriage? It’s a life journey two soul mates have to embark on

Can love save marriage? YES “but it depends on the situation at the time it needs to save it”

YES, but it depends on the situation at the time it needs to save it “says Austin”

WHAT OPE THINKS?

Do you believe in love at first sight? NO “you can like someone at first sight or catch feelings but love is a different, love is a commitment

Have you ever being in love? YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? NO “it’s impossible to, and it’s the bitter truth. it isn’t love if you are having sexual feelings for two women.

What’s your definition of love? It is a commitment to act. it is a verb, love does not matter what, it stays even when feelings fades. Love is not a feeling.

Do you believe in marriage? 100% I do

Can love save marriage? NO it can’t “love is commitment, as humans we fail and give up which leads to marriage breaking and we don’t work it out. Only GOD can save marriage and God needs the humility of one of the couple.

NO it can’t “love is commitment, as humans we fail and give up which leads to marriage breaking and we don’t work it out. Only GOD can save marriage and God needs the humility of one of the couple “says ope”

WHAT EMMANUEL THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? YES

Have you ever being in love? YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? NO “i believe it’s a waste of energy, resources, time and life

Do you believe in marriage? YES

Can love save marriage? Depends on the situation “there are lots of things that holds marriage, even the tiniest of them can scatter it. Love is not the end of marriage but true love can create allowance for tolerance.

Depends on the situation “there are lots of things that holds marriage, even the tiniest of them can scatter it. Love is not the end of marriage but true love an create allowance for tolerance “says Emmanuel”

WHAT CARL THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? YES “that’s when I feel a blood rush seeing the person”

Have you ever being in love” YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? YES I have “it’s a Virgo thing”

What’s your definition of love? A supernatural gifts of God bestowed on us freely to share with our fellow humans. God is love. Love is also a strong affection you feel towards an opposite sex.

Do you believe in marriage? YES

Can love save marriage? YES it can when it is genuine.

YES it can when it is genuine “says Carl”

Lastly

WHAT WOLE THINKS;

Do you believe in love at first sight? SURE

Have you ever being in love? YES

Have you ever loved two women at a time? YES “one stayed, the other left but still care”

What’s your definition of love? Being free when you are with someone and comfortable no matter what

Do you believe in marriage? YES

Can love save marriage? YEAH it depends

YEAH it depends says Wole

After reading all thoughts and opinions, it’s safe to say we’ve all fallen in love at one point or the other. Also not everyone believes in marriage but majority thinks there is more to marriage than just love.

So My Apples (single, in a relationship and married) what are your thoughts on this?

comment down below, i’ll be reading and responding. we are all learning and if you enjoyed this topic don’t forget to give it a star and please share.

Thank you…

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0 thoughts on “Pillow talk #2 |IS LOVE ENOUGH TO SAVE MARRIAGE?

  1. I think in my own honest opinion, love is one of the factors that holds marriage together but it definitely can’t save it alone.

  2. There is going to be a time when the love won’t be there again.commitment and communication might fail you both but companionship is just the ultimate deal. Love alone cannot definitely save marriage.there are other great factors involved and have mentioned like three.communication,companionship,commitment and love.

  3. I read some the guys comments and i must say it’s quite interesting, surprising and kinda unexpected.for me i think when two people are in love and decided to be together, they should realized together is a long time which love alone cannot save. Let God be the pillar in thar marriage and be ready to stick around for the ups and downs.there are lots of things that holds marriage together.love is one of it but can’t do it alone.

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